All my single girl’s: this post is written to encourage you, lift you up. because guess what: you’re in a good place. I’ve been single for years, not one date And let me tell you something, with hard work, community, self-awareness, I’ve found the sweet spot. Singleness is so much fun. and good for your soul, but it has to be done right. Here’s how:
- LET YOUR HAIR DOWN: It means just be an individual. Like, you can’t be afraid to be yourself, you have to be yourself, and you can’t let anyone tell you that that’s wrong.”Honestly, I don’t know why being single has such a bad undertone. In my case, these past couples of years have been some of the most fun, exciting, stress-free years of my life. Use this time miserly, you have the whole life with your partner, but too less with yourself.” Live it up! you are the only middle-aged once.”
- CUSTOMIZE YOUR TIME: If we spend our time on finding a special person, there is no time left for us. some days ago, I thought I had to be on dating apps, that’s what single girls had to do. But trust me, darling it doesn’t work. And truthfully this is not where I wanted to spend my time. Now I have learned that the time we spent with ourselves is the best time always!!
- FIND GIRL’S WHO ARE IN THE SAME PLACE: Good company always helps driven away from the lonely shivers. Spend time with your loved ones, go on bike rides, join some interesting classes. Keep yourself busy in a healthy way.
- TRUST THE PROCESS: Firstly, never compare yourself with others. Just feel comfortable in the way you are. Be patient, good things take time. Trust the timing of your milestones. Not go for fixing, controlling, planning. Instead go for being, trusting, waiting; it has a more calming effect. Just wait on God’s timing.
At now in my life, my daily joy, peace, and therefore the walk isn’t related to a man and there’s loads of freedom in this. However, everyone’s journey is totally different and mine is subject to change! what’s your story?